Safer Sex Menu
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Start the Event:
Light Fare -Talking to each other about safer sex -Kissing and hugging -Back rubs, foot rubs, and body rubs while still partially dressed -Listening to music and/or dancing together -Playing strip poker, strip backgammon, or spin-the-bottle -Stroking, brushing, or playing with each other's hair -Caressing, tickling, pinching, and nibbling each other through clothes -Reading erotic literature together -Looking at erotic pictures -Watching erotic movies on the VCR -Talking sexy or sharing fantasies -Dry humping -Undressing each other, or watching each other undress -Dressing up in erotic lingerie or costumes -Showering together -Kissing or licking or fondling your partner's body (except for the genitals and anus) -Rubbing any nonpetroleum-based body oil or lotion on each other or yourself -Putting a condom on your partner The
Main Dish:
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-Mutual
or simultaneous masturbation to orgasm with your hands (with or without condoms, with no exchange
of semen or vaginal fluids)
-Mutual or simultaneous masturbation with a vibrator (no sharing!) -Rubbing your penis against healthy, unbroken skin on your partner's body, between the breasts, between the lower thighs, or against the buttocks, making sure not to ejaculate in or on your partner's orifices -Rubbing your vulva against healthy, unbroken skin on your partner's body, avoiding contact with your partner's body orifices -Oral sex (fellatio) while wearing a condom -Oral sex (cunnilingus) while using a rubber dam or plastic wrap -Vaginal intercourse with a condom -Vaginal or anal penetration with a sex toy (no sharing!) Sweet
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